<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" > <channel> <title> Comments on: Married to a Pedophile: A Constant Web of Lies </title> <atom:link href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /> <link>https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/</link> <description></description> <lastBuildDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2014 19:02:02 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod> hourly </sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency> 1 </sy:updateFrequency> <generator>https://wordpress.org/?v=5.8.10</generator> <item> <title> By: Robert </title> <link>https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-1/#comment-2742</link> <dc:creator><![CDATA[Robert]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2014 19:02:02 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.findingahealingplace.com/?p=1565#comment-2742</guid> <description><![CDATA[In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-1/#comment-1105">Clara Hinton</a>. My pastor has been warning of the pedophile agenda for years.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-1/#comment-1105">Clara Hinton</a>.</p> <p>My pastor has been warning of the pedophile agenda for years.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item> <title> By: Robert </title> <link>https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-2741</link> <dc:creator><![CDATA[Robert]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2014 18:56:22 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.findingahealingplace.com/?p=1565#comment-2741</guid> <description><![CDATA[In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1923">Someone</a>. When I attended the University of Idaho, NAMBLA used to put up posters. My hobby was to tear the posters down. Let'em sue me.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1923">Someone</a>.</p> <p>When I attended the University of Idaho, NAMBLA used to put up posters. My hobby was to tear the posters down. Let’em sue me.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item> <title> By: Laura Kelly </title> <link>https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1928</link> <dc:creator><![CDATA[Laura Kelly]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2014 02:09:50 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.findingahealingplace.com/?p=1565#comment-1928</guid> <description><![CDATA[In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1923">Someone</a>. I just went back and clicked on Ethan's name from his first post. It was in blue and it was a link to his website. I think you should remove the link. It's not a good site for most to be invollved in.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1923">Someone</a>.</p> <p>I just went back and clicked on Ethan’s name from his first post. It was in blue and it was a link to his website. I think you should remove the link. It’s not a good site for most to be invollved in.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item> <title> By: Someone </title> <link>https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1923</link> <dc:creator><![CDATA[Someone]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 23:27:09 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.findingahealingplace.com/?p=1565#comment-1923</guid> <description><![CDATA[In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1163">Amanda</a>. I did not know something so disturbing could exist.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1163">Amanda</a>.</p> <p>I did not know something so disturbing could exist.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item> <title> By: Ethan Edwards </title> <link>https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1178</link> <dc:creator><![CDATA[Ethan Edwards]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 18 Nov 2013 05:26:50 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.findingahealingplace.com/?p=1565#comment-1178</guid> <description><![CDATA[In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1164">woolgathering</a>. It's worth noting in all this that scientists say that child sex abuse has dropped by about half in the last 30 years (that's from Finkelhor). That's still way too much abuse, but the idea that this is an increasing problem just isn't right. We are just more aware of it. It's relevant when you're trying to trade off keeping men away from children completely. "it was the teacher who was afraid of doing something dirty or rather being perceived as having crossed the boundary of appropriateness." Those are very, very different. The chances are 99% that the teacher had no fear of doing anything dirty but was very worried about other people's perceptions. The teacher could have reacted far better while still making sure not to have touching again, by telling the truth, smiling and in a friendly, compassionate way. But society's panic on the subject does understandably bring forth a quick reaction. On the whole I think society would be pretty safe with allowing touching that is done in plain view of other adults. But the rules don't seem to allow even that.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1164">woolgathering</a>.</p> <p>It’s worth noting in all this that scientists say that child sex abuse has dropped by about half in the last 30 years (that’s from Finkelhor). That’s still way too much abuse, but the idea that this is an increasing problem just isn’t right. We are just more aware of it. It’s relevant when you’re trying to trade off keeping men away from children completely.</p> <p> “it was the teacher who was afraid of doing something dirty or rather being perceived as having crossed the boundary of appropriateness.” Those are very, very different. The chances are 99% that the teacher had no fear of doing anything dirty but was very worried about other people’s perceptions.</p> <p>The teacher could have reacted far better while still making sure not to have touching again, by telling the truth, smiling and in a friendly, compassionate way. But society’s panic on the subject does understandably bring forth a quick reaction.</p> <p>On the whole I think society would be pretty safe with allowing touching that is done in plain view of other adults. But the rules don’t seem to allow even that.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>