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		By: Robert		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Robert]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2014 19:02:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-1/#comment-1105&quot;&gt;Clara Hinton&lt;/a&gt;.

My pastor has been warning of the pedophile agenda for years.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-1/#comment-1105">Clara Hinton</a>.</p>
<p>My pastor has been warning of the pedophile agenda for years.</p>
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		By: Robert		</title>
		<link>https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-2741</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Robert]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2014 18:56:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1923&quot;&gt;Someone&lt;/a&gt;.

When I attended the University of Idaho, NAMBLA used to put up posters. My hobby was to tear the posters down. Let&#039;em sue me.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1923">Someone</a>.</p>
<p>When I attended the University of Idaho, NAMBLA used to put up posters. My hobby was to tear the posters down. Let&#8217;em sue me.</p>
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		By: Laura Kelly		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Laura Kelly]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2014 02:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1923&quot;&gt;Someone&lt;/a&gt;.

I just  went back and clicked on Ethan&#039;s name from his first post. It was in blue and it was a link to his website. I think you should remove the link. It&#039;s not a good site for most to  be invollved in.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1923">Someone</a>.</p>
<p>I just  went back and clicked on Ethan&#8217;s name from his first post. It was in blue and it was a link to his website. I think you should remove the link. It&#8217;s not a good site for most to  be invollved in.</p>
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		By: Someone		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 23:27:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1163&quot;&gt;Amanda&lt;/a&gt;.

I did not know something so disturbing could exist.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1163">Amanda</a>.</p>
<p>I did not know something so disturbing could exist.</p>
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		By: Ethan Edwards		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ethan Edwards]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Nov 2013 05:26:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1164&quot;&gt;woolgathering&lt;/a&gt;.

It&#039;s worth noting in all this that scientists say that child sex abuse has dropped by about half in the last 30 years (that&#039;s from Finkelhor). That&#039;s still way too much abuse, but the idea that this is an increasing problem just isn&#039;t right. We are just more aware of it. It&#039;s relevant when you&#039;re trying to trade off keeping men away from children completely.

 &quot;it was the teacher who was afraid of doing something dirty or rather being perceived as having crossed the boundary of appropriateness.&quot; Those are very, very different. The chances are 99% that the teacher had no fear of doing anything dirty but was very worried about other people&#039;s perceptions.

The teacher could have reacted far better while still making sure not to have touching again, by telling the truth, smiling and in a friendly, compassionate way. But society&#039;s panic on the subject does understandably bring forth a quick reaction.

On the whole I think society would be pretty safe with allowing touching that is done in plain view of other adults. But the rules don&#039;t seem to allow even that.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://findingahealingplace.com/married-to-a-pedophile-a-constant-web-of-lies/comment-page-2/#comment-1164">woolgathering</a>.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s worth noting in all this that scientists say that child sex abuse has dropped by about half in the last 30 years (that&#8217;s from Finkelhor). That&#8217;s still way too much abuse, but the idea that this is an increasing problem just isn&#8217;t right. We are just more aware of it. It&#8217;s relevant when you&#8217;re trying to trade off keeping men away from children completely.</p>
<p> &#8220;it was the teacher who was afraid of doing something dirty or rather being perceived as having crossed the boundary of appropriateness.&#8221; Those are very, very different. The chances are 99% that the teacher had no fear of doing anything dirty but was very worried about other people&#8217;s perceptions.</p>
<p>The teacher could have reacted far better while still making sure not to have touching again, by telling the truth, smiling and in a friendly, compassionate way. But society&#8217;s panic on the subject does understandably bring forth a quick reaction.</p>
<p>On the whole I think society would be pretty safe with allowing touching that is done in plain view of other adults. But the rules don&#8217;t seem to allow even that.</p>
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